writes our anonymous submitter: “amie and i were friends since junior high. we had plans to go out for my 22nd birthday, but she canceled the day of. i said it was cool and that we should reschedule, and then i never heard from her again…until four years later, when she requested me as a friend on facebook. i rejected her. she friend-requested me again, and i rejected her…again.”
amie, however, didn’t seem to get the message.
adds our submitter: “for the record, my response was ‘thanks for the congrats!’”
related: you were warned never to push carrie to the limits.
159 responses so far ↓
#1
Joyful
Ok, now I really want to know why she didn’t talk to you for four years.
Nov 7, 2008 at 2:19 am rating: +31
#2
Al
So you never tried contacting her for 4 years, either?
Nov 7, 2008 at 2:27 am rating: +78
#3
Becky
I’ve been known to do that. (not talk to people for years) Social anxiety kind of thing. Totally unforgivable. Amie should have apologized.
Nov 7, 2008 at 2:29 am rating: +16
#4
Non-amie
I don’t quite understand: who is the P.A. here, Amie or the anonymous submitter? My vote is for the A.S.
Nov 7, 2008 at 2:31 am rating: +61
#5
Erin
I agree- it’s the A.S. You can, BTW, accept someone as a friend and allow them to see your profile in a very very limited way.
Nov 7, 2008 at 2:33 am rating: +2
#6
dude
i agree. the a. s. is the p.a. all the way.
Nov 7, 2008 at 3:01 am rating: +2
#7
Furu
I agree with the submitter. I have all these people from high school who barely talked to me requesting to friend me, and I get so confused. Luckily, none of them ever seem to notice or care that I don’t confirm the request. Some people just want to pad out their friend count, and this person seems particularly desperate to do so.
Nov 7, 2008 at 3:10 am rating: +10
#8
Canthz_B
Amie has some balls!
She talks to someone who is, at the very least, aware of Submitter’s wedding (maybe even attended?), but hasn’t talked to submitter in four years?
What kind of “Don’t tell Submitter you and I are still friends” bullshit is that?
Then again, maybe she was released after serving four years on a seven year sentence, in which case I too give her credit for good behavior.
Nov 7, 2008 at 3:16 am rating: +27
#9
Nini
I just love the irony of that girl’s name being “Amie”…
Nov 7, 2008 at 3:39 am rating: +24
#10
Jonathan
I once made a date with a girl, and she canceled the afternoon of and promised to reschedule. She never did, and because I was insecure I decided to hate her for a while instead of just calling her myself…
Fast forward two years, it was graduation time and I was feeling nostalgic for lots of old friends. So I message her on facebook. We’re no longer living in the same city, but we’ve been having a fantastic time with each other whenever we can get around to visiting the other’s city. It was totally worth it.
The anonymous submitter here is being passive aggressive, and Amie is just being friendly after what may have been an entirely accidental snub. It doesn’t hurt to swallow your false pride once in a while.
Nov 7, 2008 at 3:55 am rating: +60
#11
fantasy
Facebook is nothing but lies and drama wars.
Yep, I make 100k a year and I only spent 6 months at college.
They should rename facebook, call it “My brag book of lies!”
The submitter was probably pissed that Amie did not say how wonderful she looked in her pictures and what a great catch she got for a husband.
*truth is, she works at wal mart, has gained fifty pounds and her new husband is a loser that sits home smokes dope and sleeps all day. She gets home after a long day selling crap and has to cook the ramen noodles for dinner. I suppose she really doesn’t want to let amie know what her real life is, ’cause on face book you can have it as good as you want it. I suspect amie knows too much of her past.*
Nov 7, 2008 at 4:15 am rating: +23
#12
Bec
Something similar happened to me years ago, I was friends with a girl called Amy all through school and when I left I moved in with my boyfriend and she kept talking crap about me to our mutual friends so I completely blanked her, then I got a letter a year or so later to ask me why I thought I couldn’t be friends with her anymore and that she has nothing against me.
There was no reply.
Nov 7, 2008 at 5:19 am rating: +1
#13
Tammy
Fantasy is right about Facebook. I think “lol” stands for, Lots O’ Lying……..
Nov 7, 2008 at 7:02 am rating: +4
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