Comments on: Happy birthday dear what’s-his-face

By: Gwendolyn

Gwendolyn — Mon, 29 Nov 2010 00:26:43 +0000

This is why I never EVER lend money to anyone or try to borrow it. And if I do, as soon as I get some I give it back.

If you want to stop a relationship of whichever kind it’s better to settle everything before it becomes a resentment like this.

By: Anne

Anne — Mon, 15 Nov 2010 13:59:16 +0000

You know, paying him the money you owe and making your brother give back his property wouldn’t require any words at all. Just saying. Also, maybe he’s contacting you via OKCupid not to make a point but because you won’t return his calls.

By: Nate

Nate — Fri, 17 Sep 2010 14:53:42 +0000

Bitch, give him his shit back. Seriously….

By: Spooky

Spooky — Tue, 14 Sep 2010 14:09:50 +0000

Missy, your little corner of Australia sounds like a hellhole. Please stay there.

In the civilised parts of Australia, we pay our debts. People who suggest others get slapped for asking for their cash back have probably watched one too many episodes of Underbelly.

By: Odious

Odious — Sat, 11 Sep 2010 22:22:40 +0000

Not getting his stuff back to him: lame, mean and p/a. Try using the mail.

By: josh42042

josh42042 — Fri, 10 Sep 2010 01:38:42 +0000

bitch, return to BSG discs!

By: Mo®

Mo® — Wed, 08 Sep 2010 18:24:53 +0000

She wouldn’t do the weird stuff on the second date and this is why they broke up. His idea of weird may have been too weird for her.

By: Divvitar

Divvitar — Wed, 08 Sep 2010 05:09:33 +0000

Ok, let me get this straight… this loser just left his bank account information on this note? The joke’s on him when he goes to the bank and finds it cleaned out and the account closed!

By: Kara

Kara — Wed, 08 Sep 2010 01:28:13 +0000

I’m just wondering if she broke up with him and didn’t tell him about it. Like, those two weeks of silence were her “Hey I’m breaking up with you.”

I’ve seen that happen before but this is just a thought.

It is also her responsibility to return all things that were his because her brother received the DVDs because of her relationship.

To Patty: Truly we can’t make any assumptions about either one of them. He might be a perfectly nice guy, not “creepy”. She might be a perfectly nice woman and not an “icy, cold hearted bitch”. Also, I would just like to point out that even though you are telling others to quit being judgmental, you yourself are judging the ex-boyfriend by calling his word “creepy”.

By: Patty

Patty — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 23:44:42 +0000

Really? Ya’ll take his creepy word that she owes him money. Maybe she owes him nothing. It’s a one sided post with very little background info to go on. Judgemental people.

By: ariane

ariane — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 17:59:29 +0000

Did she break up with him to avoid paying him back? I have known more than one person who did that. One of them did it repeatedly; pick a pigeon, start a “relationship,” borrow some bucks, then break up. And of course isolate the person with caller ID, banning/blocking, etc.

By: Hepcat

Hepcat — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 14:37:41 +0000

bellybionic, some scumbag did that to my mother. He actually took her to court to get back money for dates and his unbelievably crappy handmade gifts.

He was 86 years old.

By: Helen

Helen — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 13:26:12 +0000

Yeah, but in this case they weren’t married so she’s not entitled to keeping half (or part) of his possessions.

By: Ammy

Ammy — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 11:04:05 +0000

Did it occur to anyone that maybe she did have a legitimate reason for completely breaking off contact with this guy and maybe she just doesn’t mention it? If she had said he pulled a Tiger Woods on her, would you still feel bad for him? Or would you continue cutting her down for mentioning it and besmirching his reputation? Honestly, some of you scare me a little with the vindictiveness of your responses to the submitter. It’s rare that a breakup is as one-sided as some of you make it sound. I doubt she is purely a “cold-hearted bitch” as much as I doubt that he didn’t have his good moments, but there was obviously some incompatibility.