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		<title>By: Marcus</title>
		<link>http://www.passiveaggressivenotes.com/2012/12/03/fix-our-shower/comment-page-1/#comment-442310</link>
		<dc:creator>Marcus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Dec 2012 03:13:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I know someone who destroyed the range on their stove by turning on all the burners on high, but they didn&#039;t think to open the oven door with the oven on.  They aren&#039;t very smart, and they are horrific tenants.  Because the patriarch is &quot;disabled&quot; [no he&#039;s not] he monopolizes the wife and children&#039;s time and steals all their monies.  When he finally went to jail, all the stupid bad shit they had gone through as tenants STOPPED.  It was amazing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know someone who destroyed the range on their stove by turning on all the burners on high, but they didn&#8217;t think to open the oven door with the oven on.  They aren&#8217;t very smart, and they are horrific tenants.  Because the patriarch is &#8220;disabled&#8221; [no he's not] he monopolizes the wife and children&#8217;s time and steals all their monies.  When he finally went to jail, all the stupid bad shit they had gone through as tenants STOPPED.  It was amazing.</p>
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		<title>By: julian casablancas</title>
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		<dc:creator>julian casablancas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Dec 2012 22:57:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Did you see that?! That was the joke - flying RIGHT over Sara&#039;s head!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Did you see that?! That was the joke &#8211; flying RIGHT over Sara&#8217;s head!</p>
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		<title>By: Amanda</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amanda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Dec 2012 03:13:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is hilarious. I used to have a landlord that used to ignore my texts when something was broken and neded fixing. I guess I should have tried this.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is hilarious. I used to have a landlord that used to ignore my texts when something was broken and neded fixing. I guess I should have tried this.</p>
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		<title>By: Kate</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Dec 2012 00:15:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love this. My current landlord and real estate agent are pretty good, but my last apartment - not so much. During a storm in my old place, the pipes bust and everyone on the top three floors ended up with flooded apartments. Most of the others got their carpets cleaned ASAP, but my landlord and body corporate decided to dispute whose responsibility it was for six months, during which time I lived in an apartment with wet, smelly carpets (the place only had one window so it was hard to air out). Then when I moved out they tried to dock my bond for damaged carpets!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love this. My current landlord and real estate agent are pretty good, but my last apartment &#8211; not so much. During a storm in my old place, the pipes bust and everyone on the top three floors ended up with flooded apartments. Most of the others got their carpets cleaned ASAP, but my landlord and body corporate decided to dispute whose responsibility it was for six months, during which time I lived in an apartment with wet, smelly carpets (the place only had one window so it was hard to air out). Then when I moved out they tried to dock my bond for damaged carpets!</p>
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		<title>By: anon</title>
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		<dc:creator>anon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Dec 2012 12:40:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Haha, that&#039;s my housemate in that screenshot!

And to answer your question...no, it hasn&#039;t been fixed yet. And that was on November 30!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Haha, that&#8217;s my housemate in that screenshot!</p>
<p>And to answer your question&#8230;no, it hasn&#8217;t been fixed yet. And that was on November 30!</p>
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		<title>By: Tanya</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tanya</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Dec 2012 03:31:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well in that case, you&#039;ll be happy to know that I at least was, and during back ups am, a &quot;within a week&quot; sort of manager with the smaller things, and a no more than 24 (pending the delivery of a new oven which, you guessed it, takes about a 24hrs) for emergencies. When I&#039;m talking about having the flu, which is a rare occasion, I&#039;m talking about delaying low-priority issues for a week, not a month or a year, and actual emergencies don&#039;t get delayed.

Your manager is truly crappy, and I&#039;m sorry that you&#039;ve had to experience what you have. I hope you can find yourself a better place, and a much better manager, soon. That said, where I live there are also laws in place regarding how long a manager can take to repair some things before the tenant can call a company in themselves, so perhaps see what your local tenancy laws are to see if you&#039;re allowed to call in a company and deduct the cost from your rent. I&#039;m not sure if it applies to discoloured/peeling ceilings, but at least where I am it would certainly apply to many of the other examples you&#039;ve given between your two comments.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well in that case, you&#8217;ll be happy to know that I at least was, and during back ups am, a &#8220;within a week&#8221; sort of manager with the smaller things, and a no more than 24 (pending the delivery of a new oven which, you guessed it, takes about a 24hrs) for emergencies. When I&#8217;m talking about having the flu, which is a rare occasion, I&#8217;m talking about delaying low-priority issues for a week, not a month or a year, and actual emergencies don&#8217;t get delayed.</p>
<p>Your manager is truly crappy, and I&#8217;m sorry that you&#8217;ve had to experience what you have. I hope you can find yourself a better place, and a much better manager, soon. That said, where I live there are also laws in place regarding how long a manager can take to repair some things before the tenant can call a company in themselves, so perhaps see what your local tenancy laws are to see if you&#8217;re allowed to call in a company and deduct the cost from your rent. I&#8217;m not sure if it applies to discoloured/peeling ceilings, but at least where I am it would certainly apply to many of the other examples you&#8217;ve given between your two comments.</p>
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		<title>By: Poltergeist</title>
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		<dc:creator>Poltergeist</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Dec 2012 19:06:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You&#039;re right, &quot;in a timely manner&quot; means different things for different projects. A broken closet door is not a #1 priority; however, many landlords seem to think that &quot;not a priority&quot; means &quot;I don&#039;t ever have to fix it.&quot; Over a few years, this adds up to a disgusting apartment with peeling paint, leaking faucets, runny toilets, drafty windows, and broken light fixtures/floor boards/doors/etc. 

I requested to have my ceiling touched up after the roof leaked and left a large stain and peeling paint. As a reasonable person, I didn&#039;t expect it to get done for a long time. Fast-forward 5 years and I&#039;ve lost my patience.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;re right, &#8220;in a timely manner&#8221; means different things for different projects. A broken closet door is not a #1 priority; however, many landlords seem to think that &#8220;not a priority&#8221; means &#8220;I don&#8217;t ever have to fix it.&#8221; Over a few years, this adds up to a disgusting apartment with peeling paint, leaking faucets, runny toilets, drafty windows, and broken light fixtures/floor boards/doors/etc. </p>
<p>I requested to have my ceiling touched up after the roof leaked and left a large stain and peeling paint. As a reasonable person, I didn&#8217;t expect it to get done for a long time. Fast-forward 5 years and I&#8217;ve lost my patience.</p>
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		<title>By: Tanya</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tanya</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Dec 2012 19:59:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As a live-in manager you fix some things yourself, and have companies fix some other things. Prior to having any person come in to do work for you, you need to first confirm that there is actually an issue. Otherwise you have tenants calling in situations such as these:

- the plumber for a hotwater heater not functioning, when the problem is actually that they&#039;ve blocked off the heater vent with furniture and stuffed animals (yes, really).
- the refrigerator repairman when it&#039;s actually that the electrical outlet broke.
- the window repair company when they&#039;ve busted the handle on their patio door (the manager actually fixes that here).

Your managers are clearly more trusting than most. Most apartment managers can tell you wild stories of things breaking and tenants freaking out thinking it&#039;s something Super Awful when it&#039;s something easy and fixable in minutes by the manager. You have elderly tenants who don&#039;t know what to do if the power stops working in one room, even if you show them when they first move in (reset the breaker). You have a tenant with a mental illness who tells you their tap is dripping but which nobody, not even the plumber, can replicate. You have tenants who get vindictive when you warn them that they&#039;ll be evicted if they have yet another explosive party on Friday, and the first thing they do in response is complain about things being wrong (or other tenants doing something wrong) that actually aren&#039;t.

When sick, I responded to non-emergent situations, on the phone, with &quot;I will come have a look on Friday, if anything else happens please call me back&quot;. And tenants were okay with this, because they know exactly when I intend to come have a look, that they&#039;re not being ignored, why the delay is happening, and that experience shows them I&#039;m typically good about getting all issues, emergent or not, fixed fast.

Your managers are very trusting, and obviously haven&#039;t run into enough problems with their system yet to switch it. However, that is not the experience of all managers. It would be lovely and make our lives so much easier if we could just hand them the phone numbers and the account names for the companies we work with, but not all tenants can be trusted to make sound decisions when a repair needs to be made.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a live-in manager you fix some things yourself, and have companies fix some other things. Prior to having any person come in to do work for you, you need to first confirm that there is actually an issue. Otherwise you have tenants calling in situations such as these:</p>
<p>- the plumber for a hotwater heater not functioning, when the problem is actually that they&#8217;ve blocked off the heater vent with furniture and stuffed animals (yes, really).<br />
- the refrigerator repairman when it&#8217;s actually that the electrical outlet broke.<br />
- the window repair company when they&#8217;ve busted the handle on their patio door (the manager actually fixes that here).</p>
<p>Your managers are clearly more trusting than most. Most apartment managers can tell you wild stories of things breaking and tenants freaking out thinking it&#8217;s something Super Awful when it&#8217;s something easy and fixable in minutes by the manager. You have elderly tenants who don&#8217;t know what to do if the power stops working in one room, even if you show them when they first move in (reset the breaker). You have a tenant with a mental illness who tells you their tap is dripping but which nobody, not even the plumber, can replicate. You have tenants who get vindictive when you warn them that they&#8217;ll be evicted if they have yet another explosive party on Friday, and the first thing they do in response is complain about things being wrong (or other tenants doing something wrong) that actually aren&#8217;t.</p>
<p>When sick, I responded to non-emergent situations, on the phone, with &#8220;I will come have a look on Friday, if anything else happens please call me back&#8221;. And tenants were okay with this, because they know exactly when I intend to come have a look, that they&#8217;re not being ignored, why the delay is happening, and that experience shows them I&#8217;m typically good about getting all issues, emergent or not, fixed fast.</p>
<p>Your managers are very trusting, and obviously haven&#8217;t run into enough problems with their system yet to switch it. However, that is not the experience of all managers. It would be lovely and make our lives so much easier if we could just hand them the phone numbers and the account names for the companies we work with, but not all tenants can be trusted to make sound decisions when a repair needs to be made.</p>
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		<title>By: Poltergeist</title>
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		<dc:creator>Poltergeist</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Dec 2012 19:13:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I would have punched him.</description>
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		<title>By: Mawwd</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mawwd</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Dec 2012 17:42:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wait Tanya, let me get this straight. Now, I&#039;ve had the flu before and I can agree that it sucks. However, it&#039;s just way too much effort for you, while ALREADY on the phone with someone, to say &quot;here&#039;s the name and number of the contractor I call for that stuff, explain to him/her the problem and he/she will get on it&quot;?  I mean, as a landlord, you should already have all these names and numbers worked out and on a list for yourself. When I moved in to places they always gave me the list of who to call on day one, actually. It was my responsibility. I&#039;d just call my landlord and say &quot;hey, I need this fixed so I&#039;ll be calling your electrician okay?&quot; and everything was hunky-dory. I&#039;m not sure how giving someone a phone number is EXCESSIVELY difficult, even while sick. It really doesn&#039;t matter if it&#039;s &quot;super important&quot; or not. Starting down the path of &quot;oh well you don&#039;t REALLY need that door fixed&quot; is the path of the slum lord. Don&#039;t be lazy. I get that you&#039;re sick but answering the phone for 30 seconds and getting up for one slip of paper is not going to kill you. If it would, you should be in the hospital.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wait Tanya, let me get this straight. Now, I&#8217;ve had the flu before and I can agree that it sucks. However, it&#8217;s just way too much effort for you, while ALREADY on the phone with someone, to say &#8220;here&#8217;s the name and number of the contractor I call for that stuff, explain to him/her the problem and he/she will get on it&#8221;?  I mean, as a landlord, you should already have all these names and numbers worked out and on a list for yourself. When I moved in to places they always gave me the list of who to call on day one, actually. It was my responsibility. I&#8217;d just call my landlord and say &#8220;hey, I need this fixed so I&#8217;ll be calling your electrician okay?&#8221; and everything was hunky-dory. I&#8217;m not sure how giving someone a phone number is EXCESSIVELY difficult, even while sick. It really doesn&#8217;t matter if it&#8217;s &#8220;super important&#8221; or not. Starting down the path of &#8220;oh well you don&#8217;t REALLY need that door fixed&#8221; is the path of the slum lord. Don&#8217;t be lazy. I get that you&#8217;re sick but answering the phone for 30 seconds and getting up for one slip of paper is not going to kill you. If it would, you should be in the hospital.</p>
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		<title>By: redheadwglasses</title>
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		<dc:creator>redheadwglasses</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Dec 2012 17:41:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You think it&#039;s &quot;way over the top&quot;?  What do you think of landlords who don&#039;t repair necessary functions in the home, like SHOWERS?

It was completely appropriate and fitting.

The point of the whole post was that the LL doesn&#039;t bother doing its job, but is willing to waste time trying to look friendly on a social media site.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You think it&#8217;s &#8220;way over the top&#8221;?  What do you think of landlords who don&#8217;t repair necessary functions in the home, like SHOWERS?</p>
<p>It was completely appropriate and fitting.</p>
<p>The point of the whole post was that the LL doesn&#8217;t bother doing its job, but is willing to waste time trying to look friendly on a social media site.</p>
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		<title>By: Tanya</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tanya</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Dec 2012 15:01:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Actually, simply by way of being a property management company, you can expect less than you get from a live-in. A property management company is typically instructed to ignore problems for as long as possible and to accumulate as many of the same jobs as possible to reduce any call-out and labour costs. A live-in, on the other hand, has to live with these people and putting up with an angry tenant isn&#039;t their idea of a good time, so they do things quicker.

And for Poltergeist, I do agree with you. I&#039;m not talking about necessities with that line, I&#039;m talking about people who broke their closet door. Your idea of &quot;necessity&quot; is sound, most tenants&#039; ideas surrounding what constitutes a necessity or an emergency are not. If I have the flu, I&#039;m not getting out of bed for a broken closet; a broken fridge, on the other hand, is actually an issue and something worth picking up the phone for.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Actually, simply by way of being a property management company, you can expect less than you get from a live-in. A property management company is typically instructed to ignore problems for as long as possible and to accumulate as many of the same jobs as possible to reduce any call-out and labour costs. A live-in, on the other hand, has to live with these people and putting up with an angry tenant isn&#8217;t their idea of a good time, so they do things quicker.</p>
<p>And for Poltergeist, I do agree with you. I&#8217;m not talking about necessities with that line, I&#8217;m talking about people who broke their closet door. Your idea of &#8220;necessity&#8221; is sound, most tenants&#8217; ideas surrounding what constitutes a necessity or an emergency are not. If I have the flu, I&#8217;m not getting out of bed for a broken closet; a broken fridge, on the other hand, is actually an issue and something worth picking up the phone for.</p>
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		<title>By: Danii</title>
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		<dc:creator>Danii</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Dec 2012 04:28:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wish my old landlord had a facebook page, because I would have loved to call him out publicly--  The main reason being that he knew the heat was out in the entire building last winter and never bothered to fix it. I ended up pretty much living in my bed with the space heater next to it. Thankfully, my lease was up in January anyway.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wish my old landlord had a facebook page, because I would have loved to call him out publicly&#8211;  The main reason being that he knew the heat was out in the entire building last winter and never bothered to fix it. I ended up pretty much living in my bed with the space heater next to it. Thankfully, my lease was up in January anyway.</p>
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		<title>By: Blurgas</title>
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		<dc:creator>Blurgas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Dec 2012 03:14:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You wouldn&#039;t happen to live near Chicago by any chance?
Cuz that sounds like my landlord...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You wouldn&#8217;t happen to live near Chicago by any chance?<br />
Cuz that sounds like my landlord&#8230;</p>
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