“I have no traces of child paraphernalia in my Mini Cooper,” says our submitter from Alexandria, Virginia — and she didn’t buy her car for environmental reasons. (“I bought it because I’m a Mini fan,” she says, “regardless of the global impact.”) So, as you might imagine, she was more than a bit puzzled to [...]
Entries Tagged as 'unsolicited feedback'
Save the earth…kill the kids?
March 3rd, 2010 · 159 Comments
Tags: northern virginia · pure poetry · strangers · the earth · unsolicited feedback · wtf?
Spoken like someone who has never tried to take a one-year-old shopping
February 15th, 2010 · 307 Comments
Alex and his wife, Kathy, have an 18-month-old son who, among other his hobbies, enjoys pulling off his socks and shoes at any opportunity. (Perhaps he’s a future marathon-running superathlete. Or, you know, a normal 18-month-old.)
Recently, Kathy took her son with her on a trip to the store in their hometown of Las Vegas (temperature: [...]
Tags: "helpful" advice · exclamation-point happy! · kids · moms & dads · strangers · unsolicited feedback
You need some help
February 2nd, 2010 · 146 Comments
On a lark, Michelle in Florida posted a profile on the online dating site OKCupid after taking one of the site’s quizzes late one night, allowing the site to pull most of her interests and whatnot from Facebook.
“I didn’t think anything more of it,” she says, that is, until she got this “helpful” message — [...]
Tags: "helpful" advice · online dating · unsolicited feedback
The Trans-Hadean Orchestra
December 22nd, 2009 · 201 Comments
At college, more often than not, your sex life is everybody’s business. But don’t worry…it’s for your own good! For example, the writer of this first note (as spotted by Ashley at Missouri State) displays a heartwarming concern for her dorm-mate’s physical safety.
And as Vic and his friends at Arizona State’s Barrett Honors College discovered, [...]
Tags: MYOB · arizona · jesus · missouri · sex sex sex · university · unsolicited feedback
Sometimes, Mom is (actually, maybe, a little bit) right.
December 21st, 2009 · 135 Comments
Writes our submitter in Lexington, Kentucky: “One day, I updated my Facebook status to something about how no one in my city knows how to properly use a turning lane. The next day, I got this e-mail from my mom. She often makes similar judgments about what personality traits I should have because I’m ‘such [...]
Tags: e-mail · facebook · moms & dads · not so much passive-aggressive · signed with love · unsolicited feedback
Loose lips shrink hips?
November 9th, 2009 · 269 Comments
Our anonymous submitter from Herndon, Virginia and two of his friends — “all three of us on the large size” — were having lunch at a restaurant when a lady sitting nearby passed them this dear little note of encouragement.
related: hey, fatty
Tags: "helpful" advice · culture clash · unsolicited feedback
“piece out our imperfections with your thoughts”
November 1st, 2009 · 328 Comments
Writes Mike in Provo, Utah: “This is a letter my friend Liz found on the windshield of her car during the time she was dating her now-husband. They framed the note, and now have it proudly displayed in their living room.”
related: a substance user and a player!
Tags: "helpful" advice · MYOB · have a nice day · neighbors · sex sex sex · unsolicited feedback · utah
Textbook Dmitri
August 12th, 2009 · 183 Comments
K, so Court in Michigan met this guy out at a bar. He seemed harmless enough, but Court knew right he wasn’t her type. Still, she didn’t have the heart to give him a flat-out “no” when he asked for her number. (She couldn’t give him a fake one, either, ’cause he the did the [...]
Tags: battle of the sexes · casual sexism · just not that into you · michigan · oh no you didn't · text message · unsolicited feedback
One can only hope you won’t be giving the wedding toast
June 28th, 2009 · 85 Comments
At a recent wedding that Allison in Ealeigh, N.C. attended, the bride asked that, instead of signing a guestbook, wedding guests write their wishes for the couple on fabric squares that would later be made into a memory quilt. When allison saw this one sitting on top, she couldn’t resist snapping a photo.
related: taboo, the [...]
Tags: north carolina · sex sex sex · unsolicited feedback
Taboo: the game of unspeakable douchebaggery
May 17th, 2009 · 254 Comments
Simone in Austin says a coworker at her office invited several people over to a house for a game night, and helpfully distributed hand-drawn maps to help people find their way. Later that day, she found of those hand-outs back on her desk, along with the following bit of anonymous feedback. What a peach!
related: silent [...]
Tags: CAPS LOCK · just an asshole · office · unsolicited feedback
Silent protest
January 27th, 2009 · 101 Comments
Tara in Vancouver organized a meetup for “progressive, radical and lefty librarians” at a place called Subeez Cafe. It wasn’t until afterwards — when she took a look at the contact sheet she’d passed around — that she realized at least one attendee was less-than-pleased with her choice of venue.
“They didn’t complain to me directly, [...]
Tags: politics · spelling and grammar police · unsolicited feedback · vancouver
That means you, Freda
May 21st, 2007 · 11 Comments
Danny snapped this understated little note at a senior center in Maryville, Missouri. It seems a bit futile, really. I know that no sign would stop my grandmother from putting in her two cents.
Tags: CAPS LOCK · missouri · old folks · unsolicited feedback

