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((Timo)) ((Wade))
I just have a minute or two to say hi before going to Sunday dinner.
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:12 pm
Comment #101100
Rose &hearts if you back read that sounds oh so yummy!
Mark- if you backread I will say nothing because I am afraid to upset the karma heisa. Last time I spouted off me and my mrs got into a row. it was uncomfortable and it made me sad so hush from me. Just a good luck brother and a I am listening. >>>Mark<<<
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:10 pm
Comment #101099
LOL
Ti (m) O - dar fully functional
i’ll wait. you may be a while.
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:00 pm
Comment #101098
hmmmm
Mark + (bac ≥ .10) = interesting late night back reading
>>>Mark<<<
anyone around?
Dec 14, 2008 at 3:59 pm
Comment #101097
Hullo CIF’s and good afternoon.
I am off to backread.
Dec 14, 2008 at 3:58 pm
Comment #101096
I still have 15 min of morning, So, G’Morning…
How is everyone ?
Dec 14, 2008 at 2:47 pm
Comment #101095
I do hope I haven’t missed you. ♥
It is snowing here!
I want to go up and sled with the kids, but don’t think it is a wise decision. So I stay home. 
I want to be a kid again, just for today!
Build me a snowman in the front yard and make some snow angels.
Dec 14, 2008 at 2:06 pm
Comment #101094
Sorry CB,
He got so muddy on Fri. he didn’t want to wash them at home even though I said I would take them out and hose them off!
I wondered off, I had to get the Mr laundry soap to go take his muddy workclothes to the laundramat!
Yes, I think we!
Dec 14, 2008 at 2:02 pm
Comment #101093
Hi, ♥ fan ♥
All I know is my life.
In my first marriage I was constantly thinking about what I did vs. what she did. That’s the mistake of “me & she”. The marriage failed.
In my second marriage I recognized that “marriage” demands not “me & she”, but “we”.
It worked for us.
Dec 14, 2008 at 1:36 pm
Comment #101092
Good morning CB ♥
Good advice CB, you do know women!
Very romantic ♥
Looks like everyone stayed up all night and now must be sleeping all day?
Dec 14, 2008 at 1:24 pm
Comment #101091
Mark, after back-readng, I will say this and try (yeah right!) to stay out of it after:
If a woman does not feel loved, appreciated, wanted, attractive, desirable and needed, she will not be in a frame of mind to love, appreciate, want, be attracted to, desire or need you.
The more you break your relationship into individual percentages, the more you reinforce to her that your relationship is lacking. You even break sex down to “I do her then I do me”. Just make love to your wife…occassionally fuck the shit out of her…and let things happen naturally!
Love is greater than the sum of its parts.
Dec 14, 2008 at 12:59 pm
Comment #101090
Crash, when you sign in, click on the “remember me” box.
Your browser doesn’t ask you if you want it to remember your password when a site requires one?
Maybe you’re deleting your cookies, or maybe you have your system set up to automatically remove cookies?
I normally login automatically, but if I logout, when I login again I only need to put a ‘C’ in and my name and password comes up automatically.
Dec 14, 2008 at 12:30 pm
Comment #101089
My computer is being noisy. I better shut down for a bit. I’ll come back when it’s safe.
♥ ,
amy d
Dec 14, 2008 at 10:14 am
Comment #101088
Crash, Rose, ya’ll still here?
Dec 14, 2008 at 10:10 am
Comment #101087
Okay CIFs…I’ve somehow wandered into Monday. If any of you happen to wander into the kerq, well my good wishes extend for the rest of the day too.
Dec 14, 2008 at 10:08 am
Comment #101086
Just a really nice version of this Sunday song, though missing Lou’s seediness. Thought you might enjoy it. *resumes lurking*
Dec 14, 2008 at 7:18 am
Comment #101085
Why do mushrooms make me think of beer ??
rose ???
Dec 14, 2008 at 6:21 am
Comment #101084
Okay…sleep…might just have it’s way with me…for now…and only now
Dec 14, 2008 at 6:19 am
Comment #101083
And tryin’ to figure where I have it written each time is not so fun.
This BS is getting to be a prob for me !!!
Dec 14, 2008 at 6:14 am
Comment #101082
Is there any damn way this place could NOT forget my password ??
it’s bad enough that i do, and can’t remember it, so I have to keep changing it….
Dec 14, 2008 at 6:08 am
Comment #101081
Okay, for Timo and Fan, though it’s fairly something…
leeks, garlic, dashi (flavouring), oyster sauce, maitake mushrooms , spinach, broccoli, black pepper, EGGS, eat with tabasco… yummy.
mushrooms, almost as good as beer. I’m going into lurking mode for awhile. Might pop in later. Nice day to all who might wander in here.
Dec 14, 2008 at 6:03 am
Comment #101080
2 ° c, 36.5 ° f - warm enough with the heater on. Or maybe it’s 6 ° c ; I can’t get local weather, just close to local weather. It feels a bit warmer, though, so that is probably it.
Dec 14, 2008 at 5:55 am
Comment #101079
Night, Crash, if you’ve gone to bed.
Night, ((Mark)), you poor tormented soul, you
Drive carefully, ‘glo.
xxx
Dec 14, 2008 at 5:49 am
Comment #101078
Now you’ve gone and made me late for work, darling rose! You know I meant Crash and Saysh and Mark being up late.
I’ll try to sneak on once I’m there. It’s above freezing, yippee!
Dec 14, 2008 at 5:40 am
Comment #101077
I’m still here, darling, crash ♥ I’m just cooking omelettes. Glo is sporadic in the morning. I just tried to crack the one egg that wasn’t cracked
baka (that’s Japanese for fool, idiot, moron - take your pick, though not as heavy-sounding).
Crash, I think it is cold here, too, but i’ll need to check in a while. Do you have heating? I know it broke down last year.
Dec 14, 2008 at 5:38 am
Comment #101076
Aww man…where’d you all go ??
Dec 14, 2008 at 5:34 am
Comment #101075
I know…cause I wanted to see rose an glo, that badly…so I’m still up !!
glo’s backreading, I think…
Dec 14, 2008 at 5:28 am
Comment #101074
Did I mention it was F’ing COLD outside ?
Cause it is, and that’s the forcast…F’ing COLD
Why am I still up ??
Dec 14, 2008 at 5:23 am
Comment #101073
♥ glo ♥
freak? Yes, well 7.20 pm is pushing it a bit once night has fallen (jus kiddin, fully comprehende).
I am cooking (omelettes), so I’m a bit in and out, but you are usually prepping to go to work, too, right?
And re: a lot of backreading - well, consdering how little there has been lately, maybe it’s a good thing? but then, my posts are long, and so are mark’s… it fills the page.
Night, darling ((Saysh)). Enjoy the party tomorrow.
Dec 14, 2008 at 5:22 am
Comment #101072
Hey glo…it’s good to see you.
How you doin’ this morning ?
G’Night Saysh,
sleep well, too.
Dec 14, 2008 at 5:20 am
Comment #101071
*Thinks that Rose is cute, based on pictures on Flickr*
Rose, I understand your effort deal-ee-o. But the problem is that I feel that I do at least 80% of the sum-total of all our chores.
But anyway, it’s just about time for bed…
Dec 14, 2008 at 5:19 am
Comment #101070
We’ve been waiting for you ‘glo.
NOW I can go to bed.
Dec 14, 2008 at 5:18 am
Comment #101069
Fricking lot of backreading.
What are you freaks doing up still?
((((Mark)))) You know you should go to counselling, just do it, with or without Mrs. Mark. I hate to think of all that frustration built up. ♥
Dec 14, 2008 at 5:17 am
Comment #101068
Ok CIFs.. I gotta get some sleep. We are having big Sweet Sixteen party here tomorrow for my oldest niece. So I can’t sleep all day as I am wont to do..
Crash, Rose, Mark.. it’s been lovely. *hugs all around*
Mark - I MBLed you. You take care of yourself and just breathe ok?
Love you guys!
Dec 14, 2008 at 5:15 am
Comment #101067
hee-hee, saysh. you know, I only set ‘em up
Dec 14, 2008 at 5:13 am
Comment #101066
Maybe she just directed me to your blog or something. I don’t remember it clearly.. Sorry. I just remember I saw a picture of you and agreed that you were cute. *wink*
Might not have even been ‘glo.
LOL Rose I think he was referencing where I said ‘glo had given me a pic of him…
Dec 14, 2008 at 5:12 am
Comment #101065
I’m rose, crash, but never mind.
good, it’s very important that you stay in touch for Trent. over time, I hope that you don’t smart so much from things if she is seeing another. ((crash)) She did ask you to come down. But yeah, I know…it’s complicated and we love you a lot.
*foiled by Crash’s wiley backedit! Of course he knows I’m rose!!
*
Dec 14, 2008 at 5:11 am
Comment #101064
glo has a pic of me ???
Dec 14, 2008 at 5:10 am
Comment #101063
Mark.. you still with us?
Crash - ‘glo usually heads in around 5ish - her time…
Dec 14, 2008 at 5:09 am
Comment #101062
actually, mark, you just reminded me. in a couple i know, the husband does most (all) of the laundry, because she always forgets about it, but i guess other things balance the whole thing out. for example, they are both wonderful cooks. friends of mine often forget the laundry. it’s not good, and it is annoying, but it is their laundry. of course, if i have to pull it from the washing machine to put my own in, then it is a pain, but it can always be dumped in the laundry sink, right, and maybe put back in the washer after yours is washed? (has her own p/a techniques). maybe just do your laundry, and she does hers. that way, no aggravation.
sometimes if glo has an early baking day she’s in at this time. Wade, too. ‘glo’s probably backreading, though, or thinking something bad about the snow.
Dec 14, 2008 at 5:07 am
Comment #101061
Glad you ladies think so….Thank’s
glo’s in this time ?…normally ?
And ya’…I think so rose, she’s seeing someone though, but we still keep in touch for Trent’s sake.
Dec 14, 2008 at 5:07 am
Comment #101060
All that matters is that you ARE back. *grin* I know everyone here missed you greatly. I’m glad I’ve gotten to speak with you as well.
I’m leaving that comment about ‘glo straddling the night and day crew alone.. absolutely alone.. not saying a word..
Dec 14, 2008 at 5:04 am
Comment #101059
But just to clarify, my laptop was screwed up there was a wire issue between the screen and key bored so only half my screen came up and I had to get a new lap top…after that I changed my password, and didn’t remember what I changed it too.
So I had some problems coming back.
Dec 14, 2008 at 5:03 am
Comment #101058
goes back to the kitchen to clean up the floor
glo, the mistress of straddling the night crew and they day
Dec 14, 2008 at 5:02 am
Comment #101057
Speaking of ‘glo…
Dec 14, 2008 at 5:01 am
Comment #101056
*grin* Rose, yeah I think ‘glo sent me a pic of him when I asked about him originally. And I’m right there with you and the old lady leering too..
Dec 14, 2008 at 5:00 am
Comment #101055
LOL.. Rose I do the same thing with the shopping bags. I am the resident beast of burden around my household.. LOL
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:59 am
Comment #101054
Yes, Crash, I think you have a real connection with Gwenn, and not just Trent, though he is a darling. I guess time and thinking will work than one out for you, and being in touch? I think we kinda figured that was why you weren’t around.
* Kind of wishes she was a bit more OCD, or at least logical. Defying her father’s childhood instructions (rose was in her childhood, not her dad), she went to the fridge and piled her arms with far more than was really wise to carry; the upshot being that as she stood up the groceries upset the shelf containing the eggs.
oh well, omelette for dinner. or 4 or 5 omelettes 
* When I was a kid, I used to pile up with shopping bags when we came back from shopping so that I didn’t have to go back and forth to the car a million times. Dad would tell me off and I’m still shaking my fist at him, damnit! Even though he is right 
Night, Charlie ♥
Crash is gorgeous, Saysh! Check out that picture in the MBL link *inappropriate old lady leer*
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:57 am
Comment #101053
Night Charlie! Sleep sweet! *hugs*
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:57 am
Comment #101052
As for that back edit.. I repeat that women need to feel wanted outside the bedroom to feel comfortable inside it.. so just TALK. That’s the biggest thing you guys need to do.
OH.. and also, has she been checked out for all this medical stuff she’s dealing with? That has quite a bit to do with it I am sure..
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:56 am
Comment #101051
Single, yes…cute is a matter of opinion though.
But I’m back and thinking of posting up a blog thingy again…not sure yet, though.
We’ll see.
I’m Crash…also known as Bowen, btw…
These friends have no idea how many times they’ve been there for me when I needed it and didn’t want it, but needed it.
These guy’s’ll do the same for you too, Mark.
We do it for each other…
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:56 am
Comment #101050
Okay, It’s bed time for me lol. 5am. Yeah. Goodnight!
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:55 am
Comment #101049
Crash - *hugs* for you too.
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:51 am
Comment #101048
I couldn’t take the stress of being a PM. I have worked in engineering also m’dear.. civil and mechanical. I KNOW what they go through. No thanks.
But yeah.. it’s MY analytical and literal mind at work. I CAN be abstract but I am much much more literal.
I can do this with and for people I care about.. but as a job, no thanks. But thank you for the compliment!
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:50 am
Comment #101047
Oh wow.. I missed that back edit Mark… umm wow. I don’t even know what to say to that.
You guys need to TALK. Seriously. Just TALK.
Crash - like Rose said.. it was me asking who Crash was and why we were pining for him. I got the story of your computer dying and your blog being deleted and your gf woes and your moving and.. hmm that’s about it. Except for the part where I asked if you were cute and single.. LOL
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:44 am
Comment #101046
I had to, I couldn’t keep on my blog, it was just sitting there doing nothing and that get’s boring to look at.
Honestly though I just isolated myself because of the Gwenn and Trent thing…still not okay with it,
It’s kind’a why me and the last girlfriend broke up.
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:44 am
Comment #101045
Saysh, you need to go for a job as a Project Manager. I am not at all exaggerating. That is exactly what I would recommend as the uber-PM.
I fully agree with you, in an abstract sense. But it’s hard to do in concrete terms. Part of my problem — I am a fantastic abstract thinker, but converting that into the real world is difficult for me.
Saysh, I’ve thought about doing that, in fact I’ve gone one step beyond — I’ve thought (in a nerdy engineer sense) about making a spreadsheet:
Chore: Annoyance of chore (1 to 5) * Time to accomplish chore (1 to 5) = XX
Chore2: Annoyance of chore2 (1 to 5) * Time to accomplish chore2 (1 to 5) = XX
etc.
Then, I just add XX’s and quantify chore annoyance factor. And then negociate, trying to minimize sum of XX’s. But the problem is that I’ve already experienced that she and I disagree with splits. For example, (I’m not saying I’m a saint here, this is one example out of several that I feel is in my favor): I put 95% of clothes in dryer. I put 95% of clothes in dryer. I fold 98% of clothes. I put 98% of clothes away. (to be a pissy bastard… when the washer stops, that means that should go in the dryer and something new should go in the dryer immediately! When the dryer stops, that means take that stuff out, fold it, put it away, and put the washer into the dryer immediately! Seems simple to me!) (to her, it means, ignore the buzzer for up to 3 days till it needs to be washed again) Yes, I’m being a pissy bastard, and this really isn’t new here on PAN. Sorry to be so predictable. But it’s reality and it annoys me.
(backedit) Rose, yes I’m the master of backedit, surely you know that!
Crash, I dunno… we basically don’t have sex at all so I dunno what to do “new.” I’ve thought about the freaky shit what ex’s and I used together, but I’ve tried some of it with her and she doesn’t like it (anything anal is out).
I know, way too much info, sorry.
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:41 am
Comment #101044
Whew, that’s a full on back-edit, Mark
. Is there some tenderness amongst all that, or is that just girls’ talk/expectation?
Also, sorry about the issue about work . Job security worries are no good.
Felt guilty, so I went to wash the dishes. Still doing them.
Crash, I think we said Where’s Crash? Have you heard from Crash? Crash deleted his blog? Where’s Crash?
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:37 am
Comment #101043
What was said, Saysh ?
Now I’m really curious…
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:37 am
Comment #101042
Mark,
Have you two ever tried new things ?
I know it’s irritating when sex is just mechanical and it can add to the other problems too.
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:33 am
Comment #101041
LOL.. Crash.. when you were being pined for.. I asked about you. And everyone chimed in with bits and pieces of who you are and where you were and what was going on in your world.. and that everyone was pining for you..
Ok, fine. I also asked if you were cute
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:29 am
Comment #101040
mark *big hug* What I would do is write out a list .. include EVERYTHING that drives you crazy.. every. single. thing. Down to the most minute thing. And catagorize them.. give them percentages of what makes you most and least crazy. Make it detailed. And put it away for a week. And liek I said before, in that week TRY to let some of the stuff go. Revisit the list and select 5 things you thing are significant.. not necessarily the biggest things on the list.. just things you know are important - liek the cats.. and maybe if she leaves the toothpaste cap off or something. pick those five things out and decide how best to deal with talking with her about it. maybe even make an appointment with her to talk abotu it. give her the list of the items - NOT your percentages ort anything just the items themselves and say those are the things you want to talk about. Give her a couple days notice so that no one comes to this conversation defensive. Maybe that could help.
I hope it does. Or that you figure out what will. It breaks my heart that you are unhappy.
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:27 am
Comment #101039
I’m actually having an argument with my hubby over the terrible things we’re going to do to eachother when one of us gets Alzheimer’s disease. lol.
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:25 am
Comment #101038
What all was said about me in my absence ?
I’m suddenly feeling self conscious…
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:22 am
Comment #101037
Mark, next time she goes upstairs complaining of a headache or stomachache you should make her a nice warm cup of tea and bring it to her. Maybe offer to rub her back to make her feel better. She may be feeling neglected or depressed or something. Try doing one of those spontaneous romantic things, like bringing her breakfast in bed one day or something. You’d be surprised how a small gesture can remind her that you care and spark something.
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:22 am
Comment #101036
I’d love to be that organised, Saysh. My cutlery drawer is definitely not segregated. When I lose my can opener, the bottle opener goes missing, when I lose my bottle opener, the can opener goes missing.
I’m a lot neater if I live with someone, but I don’t. I’d have to share a room in vegas with one of the more I’ve just dropped my coat over here for a while and I’ll pick it up later (in
two monthstwo days time) kerq-ers. I wonder if there are any? Morph, perhaps ♥Dec 14, 2008 at 4:20 am
Comment #101035
I am not THAT organized….
Ya’ I did, in NorCal, all over when I was growing up.
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:19 am
Comment #101034
LOL Crash - right back atcha! *grin* Didn’t you used to live in CA? I seem to recall someone saying that during your absence…
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:18 am
Comment #101033
Charlie ♥ Rose and Saysh, you really give good advice. Wifey and I haven’t really talked much about it. I’m not a saint, I don’t deny that trying to be attracted to Mrs Mark who goes to bed before 8pm complaining about stomach and head issues, can put a damper on wanting to blast a load in her. Seriously, probably 70% of our time (together, waking, total, averaged) is spent with her upstairs with a headache or stomachache). But I need to give her a better chance for the other 30% even when I can’t identify when that might be.
To be honest, the sex that we do have (back when)… it is pretty… mechanical… when we do have it. Part of it is that way-back-when, Mrs Mark used to have lesbian tendencies, which I’m OK with, but may be an issue for her. Sex tends to consist mechanically of me fingering her till she cums, then me fucking her till I cum. That’s it. I must say, I LURVE to EAT PUSSY. I will occasionally eat her till she cums, then… I fuck her till I cum, that’s it. So, maybe it’s just boredom, but I guess it’s complex. But…. wtf can I do????
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:17 am
Comment #101032
I think we actually lost Mark and are talking about this on our own..
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:17 am
Comment #101031
A big hug ?? (((Saysh)))
That’s all I can afford for now…
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:16 am
Comment #101030
Oh Rose… you know how most people have a junk drawer in their kitchen? Mine was all sorted out into little bins.. and alphabetized. My spice cabinets were alphabetized and any canister that I might not be able to see clearly due to size/positioning on the shelf would get a computer generated label large enough that I could read it at a glance. Sometimes I drive myself nuts, but then I just calmly print out directions back to sanity and file them for future refernce… LOL
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:15 am
Comment #101029
Hee-hee, Crash. Mark posts on this topic a lot
Post away, Mark.
I’m good, Crash. Wasted my day again. I have to cook tea soon. ‘Glo should be in soon. I think she has an early start. How about you, hon?
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:14 am
Comment #101028
Because there’s still that initial love that they remember, rose…
But that works too.
Are you in love with who she is, or who she was ?
I don’t know…
How ya’ doin’, rose !
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:13 am
Comment #101027
Hi Sayshie - are you totally OCD? I think I’m one of the few non-OCD in here, in fact, I’m a real slob. Though, I would clean up cat stuff, but then, my cats wouldn’t be inside. Just lucky in Australia to have that option. Plus, I’m with Charlie, I’m a dog person… and and and
♥ Crash ♥ I know you are there somewhere, too.
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:12 am
Comment #101026
So.. Crash.. what did you send me as a gift?? *grin*
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:11 am
Comment #101025
Hi Rose!
Crash- I live in Pittsburgh. There are tons of universities here so there are tons of drunk college kids at all times. But there are also just tons of stupid people that can’t drive in the first place. Add bad weather to that and it can make for a fun evening/morning.
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:11 am
Comment #101024
Mark - like Rose says, you need a nerd.. but a nympho one. LOL That is totally OCD. Now, where on earth would you find someone like that? Hmmmmm….. let me think…
*wink*
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:09 am
Comment #101023
Hi Rose! *tacklehug*
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:08 am
Comment #101022
Hey Charlie & Saysh. ♥
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:06 am
Comment #101021
Mark- That sounds like a good idea. She may not even be aware that you feel the way you do. She may be so absorbed in work that she doesn’t realize she’s neglecting her house-duties and wife-duties. You may be able to help her find ways to relieve some of the stress she’s feeling at work (which would hopefully lead to less complaining) which may bring back her sexual desires. I know from personal experience that when I have a lot on my plate sex really isn’t the first thing on my mind. Maybe easing some of that burden will help her start thinking about it again. Also step back and look at yourself– Are you making her feel desired? Are you making her aware that you’re sexually attracted to her? Maybe she’s lacking confidence. I don’t know.
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:05 am
Comment #101020
I don’t know if you guys are still here, and I haven’t finished reading the past page.
Mark, you know it, you just gotta get it on with an OCD mathematical statistician Star Trek nerd, who counts everything quantifiable (if time can be quantified? -Troy) as much as you do…heh
BTW, how many presents did you wrap, and if it was divided by the time you spent doing it, what would you come up with? 
Sorry, but your fascination with counting things is quite fascinating. maybe the missus just doesn’t care about such things as much - though cat poo and piss issues are serious 
You two just don’t seem to be a match. Though I think you do care for her. 4.2 years (two, man, the exact number, how many days?) soon creeps to 5, then 6, then 10. There was a guy I knew who had beeen married, so he said, unhappily, for 5(.5) years when I met him. Now almost 4(.5) years later it’s ten years. Even harder to walk away from. And he won’t. But that’s beside the point.
Just, why stay if the love is limited, there are no kids and you really don’t have a huge financial commitment to one another and maybe that one should be the least of your reasons? To honour the vows when there is no strong love seems unfair to both you and her, particularly as you have expressed your religous opinions before, and these vows seem to be of religious origin.
Anyway, we’ve posted about this before. Just thought I’d weigh in again.
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:05 am
Comment #101019
LOL Charlie.. yeah.. maybe you could solve a couple problems there..
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:03 am
Comment #101018
Mark - there may be some other problem with regards to the sex thing too. Often, for women, it has EVERYTHING to do with how appreciated, loved, etc we are feeling outside the bedroom. if you guys are having this constant back and forth with the chores and the rest of the stresses.. it is likely she (as you do) feels put upon or defensive and that makes it hard for many women to feel like being intimate. This is not true for EVERY woman, so I can’t say positively that this is the case with her, but it is a pretty good guess. So, if you can relax some of your anger and try to get her to relax hers as well.. and both of you can lose some of the defensiveness, you will likely get some action.
Dec 14, 2008 at 4:02 am
Comment #101017